Megathread Trannies posting their L's Online - Heckin valid people posting their funny misfortunes on the internet

[California Newt]

Interesting point. Perhaps we have created a new mental illness. I think it’s that they are adrift. There is no longer a framework to ‘be a woman.’ (And I think this applies to men as well in different ways.)

It does, but we Chud out easier.


I feel sorry for women most of the time. I've never seen a female equivalent to little dark age edits. It'd have to be a bunch of figures like St. Photini or something—abbesses definitely; artists, authors, and atheletes maybe. I dunno.

 

[The Taco Santo!]

Why?

I guess to teach me a lesson when he found me. A lesson would've indeed been learned, but not by me. He used to stalk his ex-wife, too. Sick guy.

 

[Sean Andalou]

Well ...


Reddit -- Archive

Spoiler: Long rant.

Went out with some friends for a queer event and we were approached and got talking with this lady who was also trans. When I introduced myself she immediately said my name sounded like a trans man name. I was taken aback and quickly changed subject. Then later that night again she approached us and asked me if I was wearing tape or had top surgery (I was wearing an unbuttoned button down).

I just found both interactions with her stressful and invasive especially coming from another queer trans person. Like the types of questions/comments she was saying were the same type of invasive personal questions that usually come from cis people once they know. It has just made my dysphoria skyrocket in queer spaces now. I’ve been contemplating changing my name and it has me overthinking my appearance/clothes more. I pass and have been stealth for a couple years at this point. This was the only situation in the last couple years I’ve been clocked.

I have made peace with being trans, and I love our community, but I wish I was cis and with my dysphoria the only way I can feel comfortable in my body is being stealth. The born in the wrong body narrative really resonates with me personally, and the fact that I was born in a way that I feel required me to transition to be happy (rather than just being born a cis man without the incongruence) is something that holds a lot of pain and resentment for me that I like to keep private in many situations. I get not everyone feels the same way, all trans people are different and that’s cool.

But I feel like everyone should get the choice how open or private they want to be about their trans status and/or transition no matter how clocky or not they seem to people - particularly in trans spaces. Asking pronouns is different and something that can be done to everyone. But making comments on someone’s identity before they have discussed it and asking invasive personal questions trying to get someone to out themselves or assuming they are trans is completely different, and just feels rude and takes away people’s choice to be open/private about their experiences on a part of identity that can be rather personal and sensitive. It’s frustrating that this was at a queer event and from another trans person. She got to choose to come out as trans to us but didn’t give the rest of us that same choice

I guess just looking for advice on what to do next time and how much to let this situation get to me or not? Has anyone else dealt with a similar situation? Any advice on how to not go into a dysphoria spiral from it? Like am not sure whether to write off as a one off or whether to change my name again or something.

Key quote (very last sentence in the rant).

Like am not sure whether to write off as a one off or whether to change my name again or something.

... it does seem to me that being clocked at a queer event (a party or what?) is the usual thing, even if no one says anything. Takes one to know one and all that, right?

 

[Waffle Iron]

God, no no no. It's sexual. Kitty = pussy, just less crude.

Do adult women really call their vagina a kitty in a clinical setting?

 

[Friend of Dorothy Parker]

Do adult women really call their vagina a kitty in a clinical setting?

Clinical, as in actually with a doctor? I would hope not. But in casual settings (like an online post, or casual sexual-ish conversation, or person-to-person personal situations, I've certainly heard/ seen people (mostly men, but sometimes women) use it.

 

[Pervbashing]

Do adult women really call their vagina a kitty in a clinical setting?

Nope. It’s looked upon as weird to call it anything but your vagina generally, and I’ve only ever heard other women call it a pussy/kitty/etc if they’re explicitly making fun of the way men talk for a joke.

In an actual medical setting porn terms are useless because they don’t mean anything. There is no coomer terminology specific enough for labia, vulva, vaginal canal etc

 

[TismFarmer]

Though this troon's wife was initially open-minded to the concept of him being a derelict crossdresser and having his babies anyway, when push comes to shove on his transition she finds herself second-guessing whether or not she can still be attracted to him - especially after seeing the grotesque results of adult media stars with bolt-ons, fake lips and floppy cocks. Don't feel too eager to sympathize with her: they both sound like trainwrecks given that she has a sexting addiction and they're both goddamn furries, so the real Ls unfortunately belong to their 8-year-old daughter with ADHD, their son who struggled in the NICU from the day he was born due to coming into the world with a giant fucking tumor, and their upcoming third baby.
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I felt bad for this woman until I found out he has been a furry for the last 25 years!
She absolutely knew he was a degenerate when she married him
Their Poor Kids...
https://www.reddit.com/r/transfurs/
r/transfurs13 hr. ago
SierraTheWolfe
Looking for connections and conversations.
Discussion

Hello everyone,

I (Sierra) have been part of the furry fandom for over twenty five years, which makes me a grey muzzle in our community. Today I began hormone replacement therapy (estradiol valerate and etc), and I could not be more excited to embrace this new chapter. My journey so far has been filled with discovery and support from this group, and I look forward to growing alongside all of you.

My fursona is a Wolfix Vara; mostly a solid white with some black fur, red amber eyes. A Wolfix Vara is a wolf sub species that can mimic traits from other species much like the viceroy butterfly does in nature. She is entirely my own creation and represents my love of transformation and creativity. If you are asking about her name, well she's my username here on Reddit.

I run and own a page known as A Random Furry on Facebook. Basically a satire comedy and meme page where I occasionally spend my time interacting with my followers. So I'll have plenty of memes there if anyone is interested. More then welcome to say hello there aswell!

My pronouns are she, her, they, them. I tend to be an introvert who enjoys quiet reflection, but I also crave genuine connection with people who share similar experiences. I would love to make new friends within the United States who understand the joys and challenges of our fandom and can relate to transition or is an ally. Feel free to reach out if you want to talk about fursonas, transition experiences, art, or just everyday life.

 

[Lyra Plushie]

totally not grooming

 

[femboy fart huffer]

Do adult women really call their vagina a kitty in a clinical setting?

No. But using stand in words for something naughty is the most reddit thing you can do which I assume is where the post was made. Think sewer slide and forever sleep but for vaginas. Or even just saying darn/heck instead of damn/hell. It's just using other words to get around filters and bots. Probably. Could be larping as a child or some weird shit like that but one out of context post is too little to go on.

 

[Waffle Iron]

Clinical, as in actually with a doctor?

I was relating to this specific post

I got my kitty four years ago and I was on blockers since I was 13 so I didn’t have a lot of skin. She’s not very deep so I just use the back door with my BF and it feels way better. However this doesn’t excuse me being lazy and not taking care of my kitty. Can y’all motivate/grill me please!?

Would an adult woman say kitty in an interview?

 

[skunt]

kitty is just a drop-in replacement for pussy. kittycat/pussycat
anyone using either term unironically is retarded or socially maladjusted. troons probably use it because "vagina" gives them dysphoria or some other dumb tranny shit.

 

[Sean Andalou]

The power of positive thinking.
He doesn't think it's a L, but it's an L.


Reddit -- Archive

It works. I promise. What other people think of you is not your responsibility. What you think about yourself is.

Lots of negative thinking in the comments.

What if I don't pass to myself? I pretty much don't care what other people think even if they misgender me, I mostly just want to pass

I want to pass to avoid getting hate-crimed over it mostly. So I don't think it helps as much, but eh.

For me, problem start the moment I look at the mirror... But I hope one day the real me stares back...
Thanks for the encouragement

But i still care what others think thats why im not wearing skirts and dresses in public anymore because of being judged i do want to pass but i will probably will fail like i do with everything else

 

[TismFarmer]

kitty is just a drop-in replacement for pussy. kittycat/pussycat
anyone using either term unironically is retarded or socially maladjusted. troons probably use it because "vagina" gives them dysphoria or some other dumb tranny shit.

I think that particular tranny uses it because he is actually clinically retarded.
Like, the puberty blockers and cross sex hormones have done a real number on him and he hasn't matured beyond about 10-12 years old.
And speaking of euphemisms for vagina.
Aussie (and some Kiwi) guys who are being drunk and crude with each other would, in the past, call it a Gash, Slash, or Axe-wound.
Since the arrival of Trannys, I haven't heard them used for a cis-woman.

 

[Aunt Carol]

God, no no no. It's sexual. Kitty = pussy, just less crude.

It's kid language: groomed kid language.

 

[femboy fart huffer]

What other people think of you is not your responsibility.

Is this person genuinely mega autistic or something? The fuck do you mean it's not my responsibility? If I don't take a shower and people around me think I stink is that their fault for being hobophobic? If I don't brush my teeth should they just go check their privilege or something? The way other people think of you is down to the way you present yourself, something which is exclusively your responsibility. I think you look like a man with a gooning addiction, not because the thought randomly popped into my head but because you are dressed like a man with a gooning addiction.

 

[TismFarmer]

Is this person genuinely mega autistic or something? The fuck do you mean it's not my responsibility? If I don't take a shower and people around me think I stink is that their fault for being hobophobic? If I don't brush my teeth should they just go check their privilege or something? The way other people think of you is down to the way you present yourself, something which is exclusively your responsibility. I think you look like a man with a gooning addiction, not because the thought randomly popped into my head but because you are dressed like a man with a gooning addiction.

The problem with that is that you are using far too much common sense.
I mean, if you truly don't care what people think of you, then being clean and not smelling, looking or dressing offensively is not going to be something you would care about beyond the physical discomfort you may feel when dirty.
Normal people, however, know that 'don't dwell on what other people think about you' is meant for things like fixing cars when you're a girl, or not caring that people call you a faggot for being a hairdresser because you're secure with your girlfriend, or ignoring people who think it's not 'cool' to do well in school etc etc etc
Trannys once again showing just how autistic/retarded they are.

 

[Peaches the Wonder Cat]

https://old.reddit.com/r/trans/comments/1m4s8oo/id_like_you_more_if_you_had_a_vagina/

Spoiler: Text

"I'd like you more if you had a vagina"Trans Feminine (self.trans)

submitted 6 hours ago by SageofRosemaryThyme

This girl was flirting with me hard and said she thought I was hot and that she likes me. Then she follows it up with the line I posted in the title. It instantly killed the mood and honestly it's stuck with me for the last few days. I'm usually not someone that struggles with bottom dysphoria but it felt like a slap in the face and I've been pretty depressed about it. It was a reminder that I'll always be reduced down to my genitals even by other people in the queer community.

Anyone else deal with this kind of stuff?

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I can't imagine what it must be like to be around people who talk about their genitals all the time. CAN YOU?

https://old.reddit.com/r/trans/comments/1m433i7/i_found_out_my_partner_jerks_off_to_straight_porn/

Spoiler: Text

I found out my partner jerks off to straight pornTrans Masculine (self.trans)

submitted 23 hours ago by istugun to r/trans

hey, this is my first post on reddit and I don't speak english well (I use google translate). I hope I can convey the essence.

I'm a transgender man, and a few minutes ago I found out that my bf jerks off to heterosexual porn, justifying it by saying that there are "too few" transgender resources on the sites or that his internet provider can "save information".

My partner accepts my gender and assures me that I'm a real man.

I don't know why, but I took this situation too seriously and got a strong attack of gender dysphoria, is it normal that I got angry?

Suuuuure he does. I swear it must be easy for guys to get laid by telling pooners how heckin' masc they are while pounding them.

 

[Waffle Iron]

Since the arrival of Trannys, I haven't heard them used for a cis-woman.

Once you've seen an actual axe wound you realize you've been very unfair to lady bits.

 

[Sean Andalou]

Seriously. 1 told a coworker I was trans and the only thing she could ask was about my genitals.

Morbid fascination confronted with a eunuch, perhaps?
Supposing it really happened that way.

 

[TismFarmer]

Once you've seen an actual axe wound you realize you've they've been very unfair to lady bits.

No matter how drunk I am, I won't be calling my own bits an 'axe-wound'. nor Slash or Gash